this is supposed to be the happiest time of my life, I am engaged to my best friend. I have found the one person who I want to spend the rest of my life with and she makes me happier than a bird with a french-fry. She knows how to calm me down when I am upset and knows how to make me laugh when all I want to do is cry. But, you choose to focus on the fact that I am engaged to a woman? WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH YOU? You being an asshole is a choice, who I love is not. Get over yourself. You are using the same biblical arguments against my marriage as people were using 50 years ago against segregation. Also, no matter how hard you try you can’t pray away the gay. Promise.
We are getting married and soon (but probably too late) you are going to regret how you have treated us. You are going to see that is not a phase, that I am happy, and most importantly that THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH ME. I can understand that you don’t want us to live together because we’re not married, but we’re working on changing that. You can’t talk about how much you “love me” and then say horrible things about me. I am not going back to the “old Catie.” I don’t want to be that depressed, no clue what I want to do with my life, confused woman. I LOVE who I am and who I am becoming. So have fun living in the denial and I will have fun living my life with my amazing fiancée. (yes, with 2 “e’s.”)